Its really REALLY hard to talk with these people too, its like they speak a completely different language and are averse to giving simple yes/no answers.
I talked to this lady about removing some old plaster because it was like 3.5 cm thick and i did not want to deal with it having to mix all that for no other reason that the dude who did it 80 years ago was drunk and fucked it up.
She didnt care about the plaster, but the paint (color) on top of it was of historical value.
I dont know who will ever appreciate any of the extra effort put into projects like this, but i doubt there are many, if even any.